New To Swinging
If you are new to swinging or just curious, our parties are designed to put you at ease and there is never any pressure to participate. The atmosphere is friendly and not dissimilar to a smart night club.
On arrival, you will be shown around the Club, by one of the hosts; introduced to other members, if you wish, and staff are available throughout the evening to offer help and advice.
You can ask any questions about the Club, or swinging in general, on the application form, via the `Join Us Here Button`, bottom centre of this page!
Membership & Fees
We are a private members Club and membership is required to attend our parties. Life Membership is currently:
£15 per couple & Single Gentleman
£5 per single lady
In order to encourage early arrival at certain parties, we offer a special price of just £10 for couples arriving at the Club, by 10:10pm. non members, can obtain the discount, when making their first visit, to a qualifying event, and completing membership.
Single Gentlemen.
Numbers are limited and there are couples only events. All single gentlemen must be members, provide a detailed description and photo.(See Single Gentlemen information on this page).
Fees vary for the different parties and can be found by visiting the Future Parties Page and viewing the individual party pages. When you select a party, via the party selector, on the Future Parties Page, we will send confirmation, with Dress, fees, timings etc.
Something For
The Weekend
&
Cuck & Bull
Gentlemen: Clean smart jeans / trousers not faded or ripped. Clean, pressed and Collared shirt , No T shirts & Clean shoes (No trainers please)
Ladies: We have never found it necessary to stipulate a dress code, but as a guide: ladies wear a wide variety of sexy, fetish, Club and sometimes, quite conservative outfits. We suggest you wear what makes you comfortable, consistent with the theme and style of the party you are attending! If driving; it is suggested that you bring a second outfit, so you can change if you feel more adventurous!
SUMMER DRESS
Smart, clean Polo / T Shirts may be worn, along with Birkenstock style sandals.
We are on Summer dress rules now!
There is guidance on the:
& with each party description!
The following rules & guidelines are intended to ensure that minimum dress standards are appropriate for parties with a variety of styles. The way members dress, contributes greatly to the overal style and ambieance of parties, especially themed, fetish and formal events. We therefore ask that you at least meet the minimum standards, outlined below. We recognise that most people now regard clean smart jeans as acceptable dress, for non formal parties and have ammended our dress rules to reflect this.
NEW! We now allow smart designer jeans at all parties
(No rips or faded jeans and preferably black at SWISH & AllBarNone, we reserve the right to deny entry, if jeans are ripped, faded excessively or dirty!)
Ladies
Ladies: We have never found it necessary to stipulate a dress code, but as a guide: ladies wear a wide variety of sexy, fetish, Club and sometimes, quite conservative outfits. We suggest you wear what makes you comfortable, consistent with the theme and style of the party you are attending! If driving; we suggest you bring a second outfit, so you can change if you feel more adventurous later in the event!
Frequently Asked Question re
Nudity Or Wearing Of Towels
We are often asked if members disrobe on arrival and walk around with towels or naked. The Club is more of a gentlemen`s club for ladies than a spa or naturist venue. Therefore, generally, members remain clothed until they play. This is not a rule, rather a convention that can be adapted to suit individuals and parties, such as SWISH, where dress is to say the least, unconventional!
Management reserve the right to refuse entry to members who meet the minimum dress standard, but are not deemed to be clean and smart. Pressed shirts, clean shoes and jeans / trousers are part of the minimum standard required of gentlemen
Management reserve the right to refuse entry to members who meet the minimum dress standard, but are not deemed to be clean and smart. Pressed shirts, clean shoes and jeans / trousers are part of the minimum standard required of gentlemen
Summer Dress exceptions
Some parties, such as Brief Encounter, Sex On the Beach themed party and BBQ events, dress will be notified and may include swimwear, T shirts and casual footwear. They will have `Summer Dress` annotatated with the dress code. Swimwear may be worn in the raised garden and courtyard garden!
Summer Masquerade Ball
although we encourage, suits, DJ`s etc, some evenings may be too warm and the minimum dress code of: trousers, shirt and shoes will be acceptable.
Gentlemen: Clean smart jeans not faded or ripped
Clean, Collared shirt or smart Polo shirts, No T shirts & Clean shoes (No trainers please)
Ladies: We have never found it necessary to stipulate a dress code, but as a guide: ladies wear a wide variety of sexy, fetish, Club and sometimes, quite conservative outfits. We suggest you wear what makes you comfortable, consistent with the theme and style of the party you are attending! If driving; it is suggested that you bring a second outfit, so you can change if you feel more adventurous!
SUMMER DRESS
Birkenstocks, Shorts, smart clean swimwear and Clean T Shirts may be worn.
BRIEF ENCOUNTER
SECRET SUNDAY
& BiPartysan
Masquerade Ball
Xmas party
New Years Eve,
Diners Night
& Specials
These are our special events, where dress is an essential part of the evening, in terms of: theme, ambiance and the expectations of those attending. We strongly encourage members to help make it a memorable event by dressing appropriately!
Gents: Fetish or erotic theme wear, Trousers / designer jeans, No Trainers, rips or T Shirts. If not wearing Fetish, Black is the default for gents at Fetish events. The minimum for a gentleman is: smart collared long sleeve shirt, trousers (or smart black jeans / chinos) and shoes.
Ladies: We have never found it necessary to stipulate a dress code, but as a guide: ladies wear a wide variety of sexy, fetish, Club and sometimes, quite conservative outfits. We suggest you wear what makes you comfortable, consistent with the theme and style of the party you are attending! If driving; it is suggested that you bring a second outfit, so you can change if you feel more adventurous!
SUMMER DRESS
Sandals, Birkenstocks and polo neck shirts are acceptable. Dress should still account for this being a Fetish & Swingers party.
SWISH
AllBarNone
SinTilL8
These are our premier events, where dress is an essential part of the evening, in terms of: theme, ambiance and the expectations of those attending. We strongly encourage members to help make it a memorable event by dressing up!
Gentlemen: Black Tie, Suit or Uniforms
`Suits You Sir` £10 discount for single gents wearingSuit, DJ or uniform at Masquerade Ball, until 10:30pm.
Smart desigigner jeans not ripped or faded, NO Trainers, rips or T Shirts.
The minimum for a gentleman is: smart collared long sleeve shirt, trousers / designer jeans and shoes.
Ladies: We have never found it necessary to stipulate a dress code, but as a guide: ladies wear a wide variety of sexy, fetish, Club and sometimes, quite conservative outfits. We suggest you wear what makes you comfortable, consistent with the theme and style of the party you are attending! If driving; it is suggested that you bring a second outfit, so you can change if you feel more adventurous!
SUMMER DRESS